{"id":20699,"date":"2022-03-16T11:53:59","date_gmt":"2022-03-16T03:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/?p=20699"},"modified":"2024-04-17T11:42:46","modified_gmt":"2024-04-17T03:42:46","slug":"long-for-reunion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/index.php\/2022\/03\/long-for-reunion\/","title":{"rendered":"Long for Reunion"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Families separated by the pandemic hope for border reopening.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cynthia Chan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Working in Xiamen, a city in Fujian province, Chen Yihua has not seen his family in Hong Kong for two years. Before the pandemic, he would return home every two week to see his wife and daughters, who are working and studying in Hong Kong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy elder daughter graduated from secondary school and entered university last year. My younger daughter grew from 155 cm to 160 cm tall. She is becoming a teenager. We are growing apart, yet I still cannot see them,\u201d the 52-year-old father sighs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Separated from his wife and daughters since early February 2020, Chen and his mother, who stays in the Mainland, miss their family in Hong Kong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy 87-year-old mother is in poor health. She always asks when my children will visit her,\u201d the merchandiser says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cShe could not hold her tears when she saw her grandchildren in a video call this Chinese New Year. It does not feel like Chinese New Year without the whole family,\u201d Chen adds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"575\" src=\"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-1024x575.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20704\" srcset=\"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-1024x575.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-300x168.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-768x431.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-1536x862.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-2048x1150.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-696x391.jpeg 696w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-1068x599.jpeg 1068w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-748x420.jpeg 748w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-2-1-1920x1078.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Chen Yihua&#8217;s daughter in Hong Kong is having a video call with her father, who is now in mainland China.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>While many countries are coexisting with COVID-19, China is one of the few countries adopting \u201cZero COVID\u201d policy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But Chen questions the logic of the policy. \u201cChina should take reference from Singapore\u2019s border control policy. Achieving community immunity is the right way to combat the virus,\u201d Chen says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Long Wait for Reunion<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chen\u2019s family is not alone. Form three student Hannah Cheng Zihan has not seen her father for a year. The 14-year-old girl came to Hong Kong from Shenzhen with her mother in 2019 while her father stayed to work.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before the pandemic, Cheng&#8217;s father travelled to Hong Kong every day. Now, they can only stay in touch by phone calls and text messages. Cheng misses the physical interaction with her family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I can only see my dad on screen, but I cannot touch him or hug him. I am worried we will become distant after being apart for so long,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>&#8220;I can only see my dad on screen, but I cannot touch him or hug him. I am worried we will become distant after being apart for so long.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>This year\u2019s Chinese New Year is Cheng\u2019s first time spending the festival without her family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI feel lonely and I miss my family. We used to have dinner in Shenzhen to celebrate Chinese New Year. But we could not this year, as my school holiday is too short due to having quarantine,\u201d Cheng says.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hong Kong citizens travelling to the Mainland must undergo a 21-day quarantine, according to an announcement from Guangdong provincial government on December 31, 2021.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"697\" src=\"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-1024x697.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20705\" srcset=\"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-1024x697.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-768x523.jpg 768w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-696x474.jpg 696w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-1068x727.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4-617x420.jpg 617w, https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Image-4.jpg 1214w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Strict quarantine requirement is imposed based on the China\u2019s \u201cZero COVID\u201d policy for visitors to enter the Mainland.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My relatives in the Mainland always tell us they miss us and my grandparents at home long to see us. I feel sad that I cannot see them too,&#8221; she adds.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cheng is also worried about getting along with them after the long separation. She hopes to return to the Mainland as soon as possible. &#8220;The travel restrictions are too strict. I hope the government can shorten the quarantine period,\u201d she says.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Pains and Cries Neglected<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In view of the situation of cross-border families, the Society for Community Organisation (SoCO) has been helping more than 1,000 families since 2021 by negotiating with the government.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They held a press conference with grassroot families on December 12, 2021, urging the government to reserve quotas for reuniting families and people with special needs when borders reopen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sze Lai-shan, the deputy director of the organisation, says they are offering them financial and legal assistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe are helping One-way Permit holders to extend their stay in Hong Kong,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One-way Permit is a document issued by the Chinese government, allowing residents of the Mainland to live in Hong Kong or Macau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sze says some have quitted their jobs in Hong Kong to reunite with their families in the Mainland, while some are suffering from financial plight, especially single-parent families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to a report about the impact of the pandemic to cross-border families conducted by SoCO in May 2021, over 80 per cent of respondents were extremely depressed due to reduced income and class suspension.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;The Hong Kong government said it was none of their business but rather that of the mainland government. The border control policy is too rigid without considering the cross-border families. The Hong Kong government should communicate better with the central government,\u201d Sze says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Edited by Winkie Ng<br>Sub-edited by Kajal Aidasani<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Families separated by the pandemic hope for border reopening. Cynthia Chan Working in Xiamen, a city in Fujian province, Chen Yihua has not seen his family in Hong Kong for two years. 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