{"id":8411,"date":"2015-12-14T12:42:07","date_gmt":"2015-12-14T04:42:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/?p=8411"},"modified":"2022-03-30T17:01:14","modified_gmt":"2022-03-30T09:01:14","slug":"hong-kong-amah-majeh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/varsity.com.cuhk.edu.hk\/index.php\/2015\/12\/hong-kong-amah-majeh\/","title":{"rendered":"An Independent Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

At 92, Cheung Kwan-tue looks back over her life as an amah<\/strong><\/p>\n

By Kelly Wong<\/strong><\/p>\n

The year that Cheung Kuan-tue was born in Guangdong Province, China was ruled by warlords and the Chinese Communist Party held its Third Party Congress in Guangzhou where it discussed forming a possible United Front with the Kuomintang. In her 92 years, Cheung has lived through a brief marriage, war and decades of domestic service as an amah or \u201cmahjeh\u201d in Guangzhou and Hong Kong.<\/p>\n

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Cheung is fiercely independent at 92<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Today, she lives alone in a tidy, self-owned apartment in an old building in Sai Wan Ho. She used to enjoy activities at a local community centre but for the past five or six years, walking has been difficult \u2013 it takes an hour to walk the 15 minutes it used to take her to the community centre.<\/p>\n

Cheung does not complain of loneliness. Despite limited mobility, she is full of energy and is proud of her independence and self-sufficiency. She is also happy to share the bittersweet story of her life as a mahjeh.<\/p>\n

Mahjeh were women employed as live-in servants in wealthy households. The women hailed from the Pearl River Delta Region and most of them had taken vows of celibacy and were known as \u201cself-combed\u201d women. Unlike their married sisters, self-combed women could work outside the home and were economically independent. Some worked in the then flourishing silkworm industry and supported their families. When the industry collapsed in the 1930s many went into domestic service, mainly in Hong Kong, Macau and the Nanyang region (now Singapore and Malaysia).<\/p>\n

Cheung was married at an early age but her husband died soon afterwards. Rather than live out her days as a widow, who would have to serve her husband\u2019s family, or remarry, she went to work as an amah when still a teenager. It is a decision she has never regretted. \u201cI came out to work and relied on myself, and I am happy now,\u201d Cheung says.<\/p>\n

Cheung\u2019s first job was to work for a rich family in Guangzhou where she was responsible for taking care of children and the elderly. \u201cAfter the children were sent to school by car, we would wait in the school until they finished,\u201d Cheung recalls with obvious pleasure. \u201cThere were so many windows [in the classroom]. I held a pen to learn how to write \u2018human\u2019 and \u2018big\u2019 in Chinese characters. That is how I know how to write my name.\u201d<\/p>\n

The job ended at the tail end of the Chinese Civil War. As Communist forces moved into Guangzhou, Cheung\u2019s wealthy employers had to flee. Therefore, at the age of 26, she moved to Hong Kong alone to continue working as an amah. There she became a member of a community of mahjeh who had turned their back on marriage for various reasons.<\/p>\n

Some women took the vow of celibacy because their families were poor and could not afford dowries or needed the fruits of their economic production. Others were themselves resistant to marriage. At a time when feudal traditions strictly governed women\u2019s behaviour and position in society, becoming a self-combing woman was a socially sanctioned way to avoid marriage and be independent.<\/p>\n

Self-combing women took a vow of celibacy in a ritual where they would tie their hair and pin it into a bun (sor hei), which is how married women wore their hair. The ceremony was meant to be solemn and it would usually take place in a house where other self-combed women lived. The new member of the sisterhood would take a bath, make food offerings to the gods, and listen to the advice of old self-combed women on the night before the self-combing ceremony.<\/p>\n

But by the 1950s, fewer women were willing to take the vow and even those who did might not have taken it very seriously. As Cheung notes: \u201cPeople could \u2018sor hei\u2019 today, and get married tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n

By Cheung\u2019s time, the rituals were not that strict. \u201cPeople would just light up the candle and offer incense to the gods. [The self-combed woman\u2019s] hair would be tied into a bun\u2026some actually did not perform the ceremony,\u201d she recalls.
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An old photo shows Cheung wearing a typical amah’s uniform<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

What the mahjeh did preserve from the self-combed women of previous generations was the sense of sisterhood and bonding among themselves. Without husbands, sons or daughters, they supported each other. Cheung remembers a time when more than 60 amahs formed a small community. \u201cWe knew each other by referral. When we would hang out during holidays, I would bring my own [amah] friends and they would bring theirs,\u201d says Cheung.<\/p>\n

These 60 amahs, including Cheung, each contributed HK$200 to buy a ground floor flat in a Buddhist nunnery in Sham Shui Po. They pledged to live there when they retired and grow old together. In the meantime, it became their gathering place on their days off, \u201cSometimes I brought my boss to the flat. Some amahs would play mahjong while the others did cooking. It was really happy,\u201d says Cheung.<\/p>\n

Over the years, the amahs gradually lost contact with each other. Cheung says most of them have probably passed away, moved to nursing homes or returned to their home towns. \u201cWhen we bought the flat, we promised to help each other in times of need. But, in the end, everyone scattered. It is easier said than done,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

Cheung does have two close amah sisters who she still keeps in touch with. After they retired, they would occasionally visit temples in Lantau Island together. On one occasion, Cheung\u2019s friends took her to the hospital when she had a fever.<\/p>\n

Cheung has been suffering from cataracts lately and struggles to walk long distances, even with her walking stick. Her best friend Luo Wu-nui suffers from Alzheimer\u2019s disease and now lives in a nursing home. They rarely get to see each other and it seems the sisterhood is more vulnerable than before.<\/p>\n

Still, Cheung is used to living independently and has relied on herself for many years. She is resourceful and proud of her achievements. After she came to Hong Kong, her job changed from looking after children and the elderly, to being a cook in a family. At the beginning, she did not regard herself as a good cook. Therefore whenever the family ordered caterers to cook for dinner parties, she would go to the kitchen and watch the professional chefs at work.<\/p>\n

\u201cSome people would not bother observing, so they did not acquire [the skill]\u2026but I am not like them. I spent time to learn,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

Because of her independent and reliable personality, Cheung\u2019s employer, who she served for more than 30 years, gave her free rein to cook whatever she wanted and almost never made comments about her cooking. Yet she still recalls in great detail that there was one dish of fried minced pork with bean sprouts and chives that failed to satisfy her employer. Even after all these years, she can not forget this failure.<\/p>\n

Cheung is proud of being trusted by the family, who invited her to emigrate to Canada with them in 1997. She turned down the offer and opted to retire as she says she was too tired to adapt to a new environment.<\/p>\n

Having lived independently for so many years, Cheung intends to look after herself for as long as she can. She has occasional visits from younger relatives in the Mainland whom she helped to support with money and goods through the years. But the last thing she wants is to have to rely on others.<\/p>\n

She has no regrets about the decisions she has made in her life and although her health has been deteriorating lately, she retains an optimistic attitude towards life and even death. \u201cWhat I think about every day is to die peacefully and not to burden anyone [when I die],\u201d she says. \u201cThere is no point being devastated; why don\u2019t we be happy?\u201d<\/p>\n

Edited by Henry Lee<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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