February 1999 From the EditorWomenI dare say most women cannot confidently stand naked in front of mirrors. Some are discontented with their natural body contours, some even feel guilty and ashamed of their shapes. Have they done anything wrong? NO. Women are bombarded to be "beautiful"--defined in terms of today's standard--absolutely fat-free but with over-sized lips, breasts and hips. Being "slim" brings women "love" from the opposite sex and recognition from their peers. They are unconsciously socialized to feel that they are destined to look pretty and cute to entertain men sexually and socially, and to be their free and loyal maids. This sounds outrageously radical, but is brutally true even though we are approaching the next millennium. Men are not the only culprits, women should also share the blame too. Some of them willingly accept being men's puppets. Male domination has been the tradition for centuries and it is difficult for both genders to change it. Can't we have an "unconventional" interpretation of beauty? Being fat is not a sin. A woman with flat breasts and small hips can be beautiful too, as long as she has her own character.
Clara Loon
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